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Over 40 Dating In New Zealand

40 Dating NZ is a dating site for Kiwis in their forties, from the Bay of Islands to Bluff. Sign up free, see who is in your region and get talking when it suits you.

Our happy members take full advantage of:

  • Free trial membership.
  • Post your own photo profile.
  • Send instant messages.
  • Find singles over 40 in New Zealand.
  • See who is online right now.
  • Secure & confidential.
  • And much more...

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Below you can find just a small selection of singles who have just joined us this week.


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How Does 40 Dating NZ Work?

You make a profile, add a photo and share a bit about yourself, maybe you are into tramping, fishing, a good flat white or a quiet night in. Other members in their forties can then find you, and you can look through theirs.

Having a browse is free, so check out who is in your region first. When you are ready to reply to messages, upgrade your membership and keep the chat going.

Keen? Join free here.

Single Men Over 40

Is 40 Dating Right For Me?

40Dating.net launched way back in 2011 and has steadily grown ever since, providing an easy way for people in their 40s to meet one another in a safe and secure way.

When you join 40Dating.net, you become a free member, allowing you to browse other members and create your own dating profile for others to find. If you enjoy using the website and are ready to reply to messages you have received, you can upgrade to our premium service, taking advantage of one of our discounted packages.

Single Men Over 40

Have A Squiz First

Want to see who is on here before you sign up? Choose an age range and a region below to browse members in their 40s for free.

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Getting Started After 40

Haven't done this before? Sweet as, here is how it works.

  • Step 1

    Join Free

    Fill out the form above. Upgrading is up to you, whenever you like.

  • Step 2

    Set Up Your Profile

    Add a recent photo and a few lines about what you enjoy.

  • Step 3

    Look Around

    Search your town, your region or the whole country.

  • Step 4

    Send A Message

    Spotted someone you like? Drop them a friendly note.



Members Near You

Members in their 40s come from both islands, from Whangarei to Invercargill. Choose your town or region below for a preview of recent sign ups.

Make Your Profile Stand Out

Keep it real. A few honest lines about your hobbies, your idea of a great weekend and who you hope to meet make it easy for someone to reply.

Add a photo and you can expect around 40% more messages than a profile without one. Recent, clear and smiling works best. Smile

New to online dating? Take your time. Have a browse, read a few profiles and say hello when you feel ready. Plenty of Kiwis your age are doing the same.

Why Your 40s Are A Great Time To Date

By your forties you have a good sense of who you are and what you want. That makes dating more straightforward, with fewer games and more honest chats.

40 Dating NZ is made for that age group, so everyone you see is at roughly the same stage of life.

Some members are single again, some have been busy raising families or building careers, and some simply want to meet someone new. You can browse free, set up your profile at your own pace and upgrade only when you want to reply.

With members across both islands, you can keep it local or look a bit further afield if a trip over the hill sounds fun.

Join free and see who is keen to meet.


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