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Over 40 Dating New Zealand is one of the easiest over 40s dating websites in New Zealand. Join today and meet singles over 40 near you. Our service is confidential, safe and fun.

Our happy members take full advantage of:

  • Free trial membership.
  • Post your own photo profile.
  • Send instant messages.
  • Find singles over 40 in The New Zealand.
  • See who is online right now.
  • Secure & confidential.
  • And much more...

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Our Newest 40 Dating Members...

Below you can find just a small selection of singles who have just joined us this week.

Single women over 40

How does online dating over 40 work?

Online dating works in a similar but far more convenient way to how personals ads work in newspapers. Instead of posting a tiny ad in a newspaper, you post a profile online instead, telling people a little about yourself, what you enjoy, places you like to go and the type of person you would like to meet. You can also add a photo or even a few photo's of yourself to your profile too.

It doesn't stop there, with 40 Dating, you can also use our simple search tools to browse other 40+ singles as near or far from you as you like, just as anyone else searching can find your profile too. When you feel ready, you can upgrade your account to our premium service, which then allows you to get in touch with and reply to all of your potntial dates, right here, online.

Why not sign up now and give it a whirl?

Single Men Over 40

Is 40 Dating Right For Me? launched way back in 2011 and has steadily grown ever since, providing an easy way for people in their 40's to meet one another in a safe and secure way.

When you join, you become a free member, allowing you to browse other members and create your own dating profile for others to find. If you enjoy using the website and are ready to reply to messages you have received, you can upgrade to our premium service, taking advantage of one of our discounted packages.

Single Men Over 40

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How Do I Start Dating In My 40's?

Online dating may sound scary and technical, but it really is the easiest way get you dating again...

  • Step 1

    Sign Up For Free

    Register as a free member using the signup form above. You can upgrade any time with no pressure at all.

  • Step 2

    Write Your Profile

    Write a simple profile about yourself and what you enjoy doing and add your best photo.

  • Step 3

    Search & Browse

    Use our easy search tools to find other singles in their 40's as near or as far from you as you like.

  • Step 4

    Get Messaging

    Send and recieve messages to and from other members that grab your attention, go on, don't be shy.

Want a sneak peak at a few members near you?

We have many many singles over 40 in our database, looking to meet people just like you. Just select either your nearest city or your region from the menu's below for a preview of our latest members near you.

Finding Your Over 40's Dating Match

As the saying goes "You have to be in it to win it" and the same can be said for the dating game. There is a bit of stigma associated with seniors and technology, which may put some people off of using an online dating website such as ours unnecessarily. In fact, using our service couldn't be easier. You can join using a computer, tablet or you mobile phone, once joined, you can use any of these to log in and collect and send your messages, the experience will be the same on each.

Once you've signed up, it's a great idea to write a short profile about yourself, for our other members to read and get top knwo you before they get in touch. Don't worry, this doesn't have to be yuor life story, just introduce yourself, maybe talk alittle about the things you like to do and the places you like to go. If you have a large family, you could give them a mention too. Don't worry, our members aren't expecting to meet James Bond or Lady Gaga, they're looking for ordibnary singles, just like you. We encorage you to add a photo to your profiel too, which you can take with your mobile phone. Profiles with photo's get 40% more messages than ones without. Smiley photos get even more Smile.

Once you're happy with yoyur profile, you can use our easy search too to find other members either locally, or maybe a little further away. Now that you'rve found somebody you would liek to meet, why not send them a pleasant message and see what happens from there. Good luck.

Starting Your Over 40s Dating Adventure

Dating in your forties does not have to be boring or something to be wary of. Online dating in this day and age is no longer something of a taboo; finding someone new and exciting online could be the best way for you to ease yourself into finding exactly what you're looking for! Dating should be filled with fun, laughter and excitement and we here at 40 Dating UK work hard to ensure that we deliver that for you.

Are you looking for love with someone local? Or maybe you're sick of the people close to where you live and you're after some excitement somewhere else?

At 40 Dating New Zealand, you can find all of this and more.

You can completely tailor your dating experience and love journey and take it all at your own pace! You can enjoy the butterflies of speaking with someone new while in the comfort of your own home. You can message, get to know each other and flirt while making dinner at home; you can search for new love options while sipping wine in the bath (being careful not to accidentally dunk your phone in the bubbles); you can get to know each other on a deeper level while out with family.

If you want things to progress quickly or be a slow burner, that's completely up to you! The beauty of online dating is that you can take it on the go, or leave it where it is! You can chat, message and explore from your phone, tablet or laptop and you can switch off all of these if you want a bit of a break.

If you find someone amazing, you can take things to the next level in your own time. You can plan romantic date nights in your local area or fun weekends away together if your love affair is further flung than on your doorstep.

Love and relationships should be fun and filled with laughter and exciting times.

Let 40 Dating New Zealand do the hard work and concentrate on enjoying your next love story unfolding in front of you. Sign up as a free member today

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